It has recently come to the attention of the internet at large that “Netflix and chill” does not actually mean “let us hang out together as we watch this documentary on Bronies.” The assumption is that you will actually bang while Netflix plays in the background. Upon hearing this, many people reminisce about the days when coming over to watch a movie meant just that. I understand. I used to think so, too. Most girls do and many guys do, as well. Still, think about it. Did you ever hang out with someone, pop a movie in the VCR or DVD player, and suddenly it's like porn music starts playing in the background? It's always been this way. Sometimes you're into it, sometimes you're not, and sometimes you just want to finish binge-watching “American Horror Story.” Now that you're aware of both the euphemism and the idea, here are a few possible reactions for various Netflix and chill situations.
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1. Your Face when You're Not Sure if It's Really Netflix and Chill...
Or if you're actually going to watch Netflix and chill out. Why is that important? Well, because...
...there's a fine line between kicking back with a bucket of popcorn and getting pulled into an unexpected make-out session. With the right eyebrow-raise and hesitant smile, that GIF shows you gearing up to decipher the true intent of the invite. Be ready! Whether it's a cuddle puddle or a solo binging marathon, the expression speaks volumes. It's all in the unspoken questions fluttering behind those unsure eyes: Will I need to feign surprise when the remote accidentally gets lost between the couch cushions? Oh, the suspense!
2. When You're Trying to Get Ready for the Evening...
Because if it's Netflix and chill then you have to shave your legs, put on makeup, and wear a pair of underwear without popped elastic. However, if it's just Netflix and, you know, chill, then it's all about sweatpants and tee shirts.
Considering the art of subtlety is key, sometimes the evening vibe calls for effortlessly chic—like you didn’t try too hard but still look stunningly put-together. A cozy, oversized sweater and those jeans that fit just right hit the sweet spot between comfy and tasteful. Accessorize with simple, yet elegant jewelry and let your hair fall into that perfect messy bun. Ready to turn heads with that I woke up like this charm, or just snuggle up with some popcorn—it’s your call, girl.
Frequently asked questions
The phrase 'Netflix and chill' started as a simple way to say watching Netflix and relaxing, but it has become a slang term that often implies an invitation to hook up or engage in intimate activities while pretending to watch a movie or a show.
You can say something like, 'Thanks for the invite, but I think I'll just chill at my place tonight,' or 'I'm really just interested in watching the movie, if that's cool with you.' Just be honest and direct about your intentions.
Yes, you can use humor to deflect the invitation. For instance, you could say, 'I hope your Wi-Fi is ready because my only plan is to binge-watch a whole season,' or 'Sure, but if you interrupt my show, you're going to need your own Netflix account!'
If you're interested, respond warmly and play along with it. You could say something like, 'Sounds like a great plan, I'll bring the popcorn!' or 'Netflix and chill? I thought you'd never ask!' Just make sure you're both on the same page.
Be clear about your intentions. You could say, 'I'm really just interested in this new movie, how about a movie night with no distractions?' or 'I love to watch Netflix with friends, but I want to keep it chill-free. Are you in for just the movie?'
3. The Look on Your Face when You Get over to His House and There's Not a TV in Sight
Suddenly your dreams of watching the entire fourth season of “House” are dead. They're dead. They died.
You can almost hear the crickets as you realize the only chill happening tonight will be the deafening silence where the laughter from your favorite comedy series should be. You're left wondering if his idea of a retro evening might involve a live reenactment of TV shows, or perhaps he's a minimalist who's discarded the digital world altogether. Either way, you're in for an unexpected twist on the classic date night that has you questioning your binge-watching compatibility.
4. Your Expression when Your BFF Confesses She “watched Netflix” with Her D-bag Crush
You're just so appalled that you can't even, and she's all trying to spin it Bridesmaids style and says they just had an “adult sleepover.”
5. When the Person with the Netflix Has Zero Chill
You know the guy (or girl). The one who's gagging for it so hard, the smell of desperation makes your libido wilt like a flower.
Every group has one, and they're often as subtle as a neon sign in a library. They'll invite you over, but the moment you're settled on the couch, they pounce! It's like they've confused "chill" with "thrill ride," and you're strapped in whether you like it or not. Seriously, can we not just actually watch one episode? Without the casual arm stretch that turns into a full-on cuddle attack? Your entertainment plans quickly become an escape room challenge, and you're not here for it.
6. The Look You Get when You're Trying to Figure out the Best Way to Initiate a Netflix and Chill Sesh
You know you're going to blurt out something about that Bronies documentary and you really don't want to.
7. Your Expression when You're Trolling Netflix for Sexy Movies
How are you supposed to set the mood when the monthly Netflix selection is all Adam Sandler movies and anime? There is nothing sexy about Billy Madison and tentacles! Well … apparently there is something sexy about tentacles, but they're not your bag.
8. Your Reaction when You're Trolling Netflix for Good Movies
But they just switched out their stuff and every movie you genuinely want to watch with someone you find hella interesting (sorry for hella) is now gone. You want to bond over your favorite films, to seduce and be seduced on a whole different level, and now your boo's going to think you want to chill, not just chill.
9. That Look You Get when It's Five Minutes in and You Start Getting This Face 😏
You know the face. You know it. I know you know it
10. When It's Five Minutes in and You Start Giving This Face 😏
Because sometimes you are thirsty and you do not want to wait for your drink.
11. Your Face when You're Two Episodes in and You Know It's Not Going to Happen
Maybe you're not feeling it, maybe the vibe's not right, the chemistry's all wrong – any of a dozen things. You just have to try to look like you're not busy plotting an escape route.
12. The Proper Expression to Adopt when You're Hiding a Text
You know, to tell your friend to call you ASAP because you discovered you can't escape out the bathroom window.
13. TFW It's Forty Five Minutes in and You Have to Make a Move
But you're sort of awkward as hell and it's not quite this adorable.
Almost an hour into the Netflix scroll-a-thon, and it's go-time. You're eyeing the remote like it's a grenade pin and your internal pep talk is in full swing—be cool, be chill, you got this. Yet, somehow, your move is less suave lean-in and more accidental elbow jab. Cue the awkward laughter, followed by a charmingly clumsy attempt to brush it off. Did they just see your hands shake? Nah, play it off, you're so in control. Right, just keep telling yourself that while you mentally draft your tweet about this later.
14. When It's a Rando on Tinder Who's Trying to Netflix in Your Chill
One of the creepy ones. One of the nightmare ones. Or, worst of all, one of the felipes.
15. When the Request is so Fly, It Makes You Want to Netflix and Chill
Unexpected laughs are awesome. Cleverness, wit, a sense of humor – all possible deal makers.
Sometimes a suggestion to "Netflix and chill" arrives so smoothly, it practically deserves a standing ovation. The request might come wrapped in a pun that has you grinning from ear to ear or a meme so timely it should win an award. In moments like these, the charm offensive is so strong, it's hard not to play along. Letting out that surprise chuckle, you can't help but admire the creativity behind the ask. Could this be the modern-day equivalent of serenading outside your window? Maybe. Cue dimming the lights and diving into the comfy couch sanctuary for an evening of relaxed entertainment.
16. Your Face when You Resume the Netflix Portion of the Evening...
...and the chill portion was so good.
17. Your Face when You Resume the Netflix Portion of the Evening...
...and the chill portion was SO. BAD.
It makes sense that a movie is the universal cover for a hook up, but at the same time … Netflix is just so awesome. What's your most cringe-worthy Netflix and chill story?
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